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Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Happy Birthday to the greatest son a mom could ask for!



8 years ago a woman in Jacobtown, Liberia gave birth to a tiny little African boy!  He was perfect.  She rejoiced in his healthiness and sheer beauty.

7 years ago the woman in Jacobtown noticed here baby wasn't acting right.  She took him to the hospital and found out he had TB.

6 years ago the woman in Jacobtown put her hand on her son's back and noticed that there was something strange developing.  

5 years ago the woman in Jacobtown did everything in her power to stop the growth of the bump on her baby's back, but it kept getting bigger and bigger.  She could no longer hide his disability from the neighbors.

4 years ago the woman in Jacobtown realized her son was sick again and treated him once more for TB.  She also everything she could to protect him from persecution for his crooked back.

3 years ago the woman in Jacobtown did everything she could to make enough money to support her family now that her son's father had left.

2 years ago the woman in Jacobtown began to realize she couldn't care or feed her beautiful 6 year old son and began to think of other options.

1 year ago the woman in Jacobtown got in a taxi with her son and went to an orphanage in Monrovia.  They told her they had found a woman in America that wanted to adopt her son and would give him a good life.  The woman hugged her son and promised to always love him and walked away.

Meanwhile...

1 year ago I sat in my living room with my closest friends in front of a "Finding Nemo" cake and celebrated the 7th birthday of the son who was waiting for a woman he had never met to come and grab him and promise to never leave.

TODAY  I woke up my amazing 8 year old son and said "happy birthday baby".   He jumped into my arms from the top bunk of his bed and held onto me so tight and just kept saying "mommy, mommy, mommy"  and all I could say back was, "my son, my son, my son".

We went to his favorite Chinese restaurant to eat some fried rice (his favorite thing in the world) and some "pork meat"!

In true Liberian fashion he dug into the bone!  Good thing those teeth are finally coming in!

I seriously think we look like each other!

24 comments:

Nikki said...

Happy birthday Isaac- have a great day!

Nikki

Anonymous said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ISAAC!

YOU ARE AN AMAZING BOY!

HOPE YOU HAD A WONDERFUL DAY!

BLESSING TO YOU!

Krystal said...

Happy Birthday, Isaac!!!!

Sintari said...

HAPPY 8th BIRTHDAY, ISAAC!!!

You two do look like each other. :)
So, what were YOU up to 8 years ago, Jocelyn? High school? Getting ready for graduation, while your son was being born a world away? Crazy.
What a happy day!

Tanya said...

What a wonderful tribute!
Happy Birthday Isaac

Tanya

Brandi said...

I seriously cried!

Happy Birthday (a little late) sweet boy!!! Can't wait to meet you. When are you coming to visit me?

Brandi

missy said...

Jocelyn,
That was beautifully written and touched me deeply. Happy Birthday sweet Isaac. May you have many many more and do great things with this life that you have been given.
Love,
Missy

Lazy D Ranch said...

Love the bone thing...only a fellow Liberian mommy could understand that one!
Beautiful blog...it is an amazing journey these kids have been on. Keep up the good work. And, happy b-day Isaac.
~Heather at
www.lazydranch8.blogspot.com

Holly said...

Amazing testimony. Only the hand of God could accomplish such magnificent things.
Many more blessings to come,
Holly
www.purposedrivenfamily.blogspot.com

Single PAP said...

happy bday isaac!

j, i love your blog. i started an Ethiopian adoption about 6 months ago but put it on hold cause I took a job in manila, but i fully intend to resume the process when i get back. the more i read your blog though,the more i think about adopting an older child. you make it sound so incredibly special, quite different from infant or toddler adoption. i was just wondering if you had always intended to adopt an older child or was there something about isaac's photo that spoke to you or what?

thanks for sharing his story.

~laura

Christina said...

Happy 8th Birthday Isaac. YOU are a beautiful little boy/man with a wonderful mommy. Have a good day. Hugs.

Jana said...

*tears* happy b-day!!!!

Anonymous said...

this so made me cry!


Happy Birthday Issac!


Congrats on having your baby in your arms on his birthday!

Liesl said...

Happy Birthday, Isaac!!

Hope you had a great day...

Soltana said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!


Hope you both had a GREAT DAY:)

Lots of love

Stephanie M said...

You absolutely do look alike! Happy Birthday I-man!!! Love, Stephanie and Dianna

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday Isaac! I have been following y'alls story for a long time now. It's awesome to see how well he is doing!

Jamie said...

Happy Belated birthday Isaac. Your post made me cry. Amazing. And how special that he just held you saying, "Mommy" over and over again.

annNEE said...

Wow! Thank you for sharing your story! I hope you had an amazing birthday together and that this year will prove to be one of great growth, connection, and enjoyment for you both!

much love ~annNEE

Dono & Laurie said...

Happy Birthday Isaac!!!!!!!
Love,
Your friends:)
Nyenna, Titus, and Kojo

Grandmom said...

Happy Birthday, Isaac!!
God's blessings on both of you!

Ellie, Joseph, Samuel, Tyler, Molly, and Kate's Grandmom in PA. Remember coming to my classroom?

Ohilda said...

WOW! I'm not sure how I came across your blog, but God has been edging me towards a Liberian adoption. Isaac is PRECIOUS! Thank you so much for sharing. You have truly blessed me today.

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday, Isaac! You are a very special little boy with a wonderful mommy! Bless you!

Jamie said...

Happy belated birthday, Isaac! I totally got chills reading the details of how God united you two. Absolutely beautiful!!!
Love,
Jamie :0)