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Friday, May 16, 2008

1 Year and 4 Days Ago

I stood on the porch of an orphan home in Paynesville, Liberia and waited.  It was only a minute or two but it felt like an eternity.  Then through the door walked the tiniest 7 year old boy I had ever seen in my life.  My first thought was NOT "my son!"  It was, "good God he's tiny, I wonder if he has dwarfism and no one told me.  Hum...."  

I know what your thinking, not really PC.  But those were my first thoughts and they will forever be burned in my memory.  My second thought was "What do I say?"

I couldn't figure this one out so he and I just stared at each other for a few minutes.  Nothing was said between us.  Just utter, unbearable silence.  Until he looked at me and said, "you my ma?"  I looked at him and all I could say was "yes."

16 comments:

Nikki said...

"You my ma?" Hehe, that is precious!

Nikki

Angel said...

The sweetest little cutie ever.
:0) Angel

Bethany said...

That is so precious-- "You my ma?" AWwwww.... Happy 1 Year Anniversary!! :D

Julie Shaw said...

i love the last one

Melodie said...

Sigh...I remember that day... The funny thing is, the first time Isaac was ever brought to AoH I thought he had dwarfism as well! You did great the first meeting, though. I thought it was so good that you brought the photo album which was the perfect ice breaker.

Anonymous said...

Warm fuzzies:-) Happy anniversary!

Donna Barber said...

Happy Anniversary. What a blessing he is and you to him.

Jeremy and Kamina Johnson said...

too cute!

Anonymous said...

ya made me cry!!! love, denise (it seems like yesterday...man, what a year.)

missy said...

Oh my goodness, I can't believe it's been a year. WOW!!! You used to think "time flies when you're having fun" didn't you? But actually, "time flies when you're a mamma". oh my, didn't mean to make it sound like being a mamma isn't fun....oh, you get it..

votemom said...

what a great first conversation! i love it!!!!!!!!

Katie said...

Such a sweet first meeting!! Happy 1 year!!!
kt b

Tanya said...

Happy Anniversary!!

Stephanie M said...

I remember that porch!! Seems like yesterday, but was 9 months ago now! I've been thinking about you!

Dono & Laurie said...

I remember that day too!!! Only it was you coming back to the Sheppard's telling us all about it;) Hard to believe over a year has now passed?! What the?
~L

MAC said...

The you my ma quote brought tears to my eyes...but that doesn't make me less of a man. Sucker